Tuesday, October 12

had a tiff with B on saturday.
and till today,
i still think that his demands are kinda "overboard".

the thing is,
we hardly get to meet each other now..
say one week once?
from the massive 4-5 meet up to 1 week once,
its alot for a girl to take okay?

anyway, so yar.
we finally get to meet up on saturday for movie @ tiong.
but no one would ever know the "finally meet up" would triggered this quarrel.

basically,
i was the one who flared up lar.
totally because i think he is not spending his time,
quality-ly ENOUGH with me lar.
he just KEPT making phone calls (more than 1 is already pural) in the midst of our conversation.
the 1st time, i forgive him.
but the 2nd one, i totally cant take it anymore.

it totally made me feel like a retard?
like you are talking to someone,
 then suddenly the person started singing.
isn't it totally like WTH?!
AINT YOU SUPPOSE TO BE PAYING ATTENTION TO WHAT IM SAYING?!

okay.
so i showed my unhappiness.
and he tried to coax me.
but in the end, he also flared up cos he feels that i made him an idiot,
cos he talk to me but i never reply.

and thats where the massive fight begins..

kinda lame.
but, sometimes it feels good to have a little fight here and there.
it does helps to boooooast one's relationship.
really, it does.
cos i'll be treated like a new born baby everytime after quarrel.
i mean,
the honey always comes back after the bee sucked all of it right?
same goes to relationship ahs.
after each dispute,
both will know how to treasure and treat each other better.
(:

and also,
you will start to know ALL THE THINGS your partner kept in their hearts?
like.....
you are actually NOT UNDERSTANING,
SELFISH,
SHORT TEMPERED,
NOT ENCOURAGING of his career etc.
right, B?    (:

its not like always they will be THAT honest right?
cause most of them they will only say.
"i love you",
"you are the perfect one",
"you are everything i needed",
"i love all the flaws of yours" bla bla bla.
its only then you will know,
actually you have soooooooo muchhhhhhh good points!


and it doesnt help if your partner continued with this sentence:

"Actually if you dont get angry, we will NOT have any fight."
"Actually if you dont get angry, we will NOT have any fight."
"Actually if you dont get angry, we will NOT have any fight."




shutup, asshole B!

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