Anyone can become angry, that is easy.
But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and the right way - that is not easy!

Aristotle
- The Nicomechean Ethics

Humans are just so weird.
Knowing that by doing smth will make oneself feels more terrible,
BUT out of curosity,
oneself WILL still do so, then causing ownself to be emo.
what the hell!

Let me talk about EQ - Emotional Intelligence.

Emotional Intelligence is consciously choosing thoughts, feelings
and actions to get optimal results in relationship with yourself and others.

EQ is not about being nice all the time. It's about being honest with yourself!

EQ is not about "touchy-feely". It's about being awareof your feelings and those of others around you.

EQ is not about being emotional. It's about being SMART with your emotions.

In order to have the abilities to have high EQ,
one must have EMPATHY and SOCIAL SKILLS!

Empathy: Sensitivity to others' feelings and concerns and taking their perspective; compassion; appreciating the differences in how people feel about things.

Social Skills: Ability to accurately read social situations and interact smoothly with others.


so.. do you have? (:

Feelings are mostly carry overs!
They canot be dumped away..
neither can they be erased away.
Therefore, you have to choose what you want to behave DESPITE everything that had happened to you the previous nght/day/week/month or even year.
its hard. but.. thats EQ.

Everyone have a choice, including ME and YOU!
You can end anything at your choice
BUT most people/of us did not/dare not!

TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST! TOUGH PEOPLE DO!

when the goings get tough, the tough gets going.

Being happy and miserable, its the same amount of effort used.
so? choose wisely! *winks*